Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Hello to all you bloggers out there who have an interest in the well being of children. I am excited to share with you through my newly designed website, what I’ve learned over the years about children, feelings and growing healthy adults. The Internet is quite an incredible vehicle in which to connect with each other. People all over the globe can discover the universal world of feelings and how to influence peace on the planet through reflection, self-improvement and taking action.

After working with children and adults for nearly twenty years it is quite evident that a dysfunctional child comes from a dysfunctional parent. That parent did their best with the tools he/she had to work with (if any) at the time. But now we are in the 21st century and have the the most efficient tools to help mold a child’s life into one of self-reliance, self-accountability and knowing their true nature.

A child grows up believing what she/he has been exposed to. Such a simple truth, yet remains an enigma to so many. A child learns low self-esteem in much the same way the parent acquired it. It’s a part of a continual lineage of negative energy heard by the child through her life—starting at childhood. “I should have never been a mother,” is not what you want to be telling your child. If a mother thinks it more than once, then seek qualified help – and fast. Your child does not deserve to be exposed to that energy.

It’s never too early to expose your child to a feelings vocabulary. Learn together and grow together. One of the first books I sold in 1990 was to a woman who purchased it for her 30-year old husband. “He is so out of touch with his feelings that he needs an elementary way of learning about this denied part of himself.”

The quote in the front on The Feelings Storybook says, “There is nothing that effects a child’s life more than the unfulfilled life of an adult.” Cark Jung was right on.

I look forward to providing the visitors on my site with pertinent information about the well-being of children and how to become a more responsible parent, relative, care provider, educator, professional and friend to a child.


Blogger sophia said...

I am Sophia live in USA California Castro Valley city my sister house now. She like have mail at her house by her self don’t like my mail send in her house to me. If I have important mail I can use her house address now. Why not? I have angry sister maybe crazy now. She was call mother go to take out my save money for my rent room at bank. I can’t rent room to out side now. I want save back money for rent my room now. She tell me clean my room everyday she want check my room is clean or not every Sunday. I like live at Oakland city Chinatown live back. She don’t like me wear same color cloths everyday with me go out now. I can’t rent the rooms every month now. She didn’t like me do it anything now. She's don’t answer me everyday. Maybe she teacher he don't like talk to me now. I don’t have friends near by sister house only a cat said mow to answer me everyday. She like cooking everyday call me eat I don’t like the foods everyday. I like go out side to eat dinner everyday now. Sister's son like me buy the toys for him the mother said don't buy for him any toys and books was two months. Sister’s son don’t like play with me everyday. He like me give him some toys for him play with him. I am so boring no friend everyday. I like Sunday go to Chinatown church every weekend. I like in Chinatown Church old friends with me talking every weekend and buy Chinese food at there. Now I can’t go to Chinatown sister want together with me go near by her house Chinese Church every weekend now. So boring I don’t know the Church friends don’t with me talking.

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Blogger Cal said...

I can't believe that it took me so long to find your blog on feelings and children. All feelings are rational, and of course, understanding this will greatly help us to care for children.

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Blogger lisa said...

My child finds it difficult to memorize what he studies,which is reflecting on his attitude,i am trying to find some innovative ways to teach him and come up with the idea of using flash cards,videos and photos,currently am using the www.funnelbrain.com to teach him.he is enjoying the concept.can you suggest any more ways that i can help him with.

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